With the tenants FINALLY ( big sigh!) moved from my house on the 4th November, operation 'house move' stepped up a gear and last week was a flurry of activity!
Thank you Elaine for your help! 💗
The move was overdue, frustrated by delays with my tenants and affected us both. Steve in making a head start on 'moving on', threw a climatical and rushed urgency on the move, but I'm pleased to say that having negotiated the clean up and move around several medical appointments we are free from the complicated, but at the time necessary arrangement.
Now time to move away from this part of my life with my head held high and some compassion for where Steve is on his own journey through life.
We are both 'on our way' with our fabulous friends and family helping us settle into our new 'normal' and our separate directions!
I'm grateful of our mutual friends, who have remained impartial, but never the less supportive of us both, and made this last 5 months certainly easier for me, as I have been recovering from treatment and planning life overhaul .
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| November 2014 |
My home was not quite ready for me when I moved on 9th November, so I'm spending QT with my big bro, Nick and Vanessa, my SIL for a week, when I shall be taking delivery and making 'essential' purchases of household basics.. all in time for the next phase of 'life over haul', when I start back to work on 17th November 2014. YAY!
I've been 'officially' fit to return to work since 29th September, and I chose to take some leave due to my pending house move. It is still uncertain where I'm to return to, as there have been a number of changes at NCC since I stopped working, so more exciting revelations to come!! YAY!
I have felt quite empowered and never more certain of my direction, but it has probably not been hard to read between the lines and equally there have been times I have felt quite discouraged these last couple of weeks!
As always, I have found writting this blog post, in fact written in the days before I moved, recentering; taking me to a position of 'mindfulness' perspective, where it seems to allow my feelings to co exist nicely with my logic.
I happened upon a poem about 'listening' I wanted to share... and whilst not all the words are necessarily relevant to my story, I have learnt from it's message, more significantly in terms of my own communication with others, ( I'm a problem solver/fixer!) but also just in case you should meet me and catch me on a 'rambling' day lol!!
Anyway... Time to get the show on the road and get this 'party in my head' restarted! 💗
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